I also u girder for remote controlling BSplayer.
I made my own IR receiver for that, so you have to check if yours is compatible with girder.
Some time ago I wrote a guide that explains how to remote control your PC. It's a little outdated now, but I still believe it's a good place to start.
The guide covers both WinLirc and girder, but I recommed girder so you can skip the winlirc part.
The guide is over here
http://users.skynet.be/RafkeP/tutorials/remote/
And for the BSPlayer 1.x you need the following gml file
http://users.skynet.be/RafkeP/tutori...yer100.805.gml
I hope this is of use to you.
Rafke